Two months out from the wedding and the ring choice still feels confusing. Job is hands-on (lots of lifting and tools), then weekends are spent camping and fixing up the house. Looking for something that won’t scratch to pieces in a week, won’t irritate skin, and won’t be bulky under gloves. Debating between 5mm and 6mm, brushed or polished, and whether comfort-fit really matters. Also curious about metals that handle sweat and soap without turning dull. Simple, real advice would help a lot.
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Best path is to match the metal and finish to your routine. Platinum is dense, hypoallergenic, and takes on a soft patina instead of deep scratches; titanium is light and tough, great for active days, though resizing can be limited. For a tool-heavy job, a brushed or matte finish hides scuffs far better than mirror polish. Comfort-fit helps when hands swell after work or workouts, especially at 5–6mm. If nickel is a worry, stick with platinum, titanium, or palladium-alloy gold. A quick visual check is this collection of Mens Rings—look for comfort-fit notes, edge shape, and side profile photos. Consider a silicone stand-in during heavy tasks for safety, then wear the metal band off the job. Last tip: confirm size late in the day when fingers are warm, and test a sizer for a week.